9 THINGS YOU CAN DO TO MAKE LIFE EASY AND SIMPLE !!!



LIFE IS NOT AS COMPLICATED AS WE MAKE IT.

9 THINGS YOU CAN DO TO MAKE LIFE EASY AND SIMPLE !!! 


In my journey, I have realised, life is a journey and we are all on our individuals journeys. People around us are playing roles in that journey. Whatever life might throw at you, one always can get the strength to gather one self and walk again. How can one deal with life when the going gets tuff and things seem bleak or when you don't know, what shall I do, what decision to take and where to go. 

Life doesn't come with an instruction booklet, so we need to figure things out and we learn through experiences. I am going to share a few things which I have learnt along my journey. 

1. Surround yourself with Good Hearted Souls: 
On my journey I have learnt that good hearted souls and good people are very important as they will make your life fulfilling. Know who your true friends are. Some people might be good but not right for you. Learn to indentify and make quality relationships for life. Nothing can beat the bonds of love. Supeficiality dies in difficult times. 

2. Be a Good Soul: 
Help along your journey. Figure how you can contribute and make life easy on this planet. This planet needs positive people who help others out of their miseries and make this place a better place to live. 

3. Be Solution Oriented: 
When you face the worst, say, failing in an exam, losing a job, grieve, cry as much as you want but at the same time make every effort to pull yourself out of it. Look for answers within and find them. Getting sucked into a problem will not help, but figuring out solutions will open up doors. Remember everything happens for a reason, so our job is to figure out a solution to deal with the problem. Once you have solution, then you can sit and reason out why this happend, what should be the future course. When you ask questions, you get asnwers. 

4. Meditate for Solutions. 
When you face problems, its easier to think from desperation, anger, resentment etc. To figure out the right solution, wisdom is imperative, hence meditate everyday, so the solutions come from a peaceful, calm place. Daily Meditation will also help you see the reality of life and open up the gates you never imagined. 

5. Don't keep grudges: 
Do not keep grudges against anyone, not even your enemy. Grudges and not forgiving people becomes a burden on onself. You can step away from the people who you feel are not right but carrying negativity in your heart and mind is the worst. If you want, don't think about them, if you do send forgiveness and good wishes. This will help you to sort your own life and make it pleasant. Resentment, grudges, hatred as helped no one. Its adds to you own baggage and leads to frustation, illness etc. 

6. Practice Gratitude. 
Keep a notebook and make it a daily habit to write things you are grateful for. This practice has to continue even in the most difficut times. 

7. Do not unnecessary complicate your life: 
Keep your life simple and clean. Focus on what you are here for and do not get involved in unnecessary drama. We don't realise but we create unnecessary issues by over thinking and by involving ourselves in dramatic situations. 

8. Don't get Impacted by what others do: 
Other people's behaviour is not in our control. If others gossip or do something against you, one has the full right to stand up for one-self, but we cannot control how others function. Stand for self and sort issues, but don't complicate your life, by ovethinking, feeling bad for what others do. Live your own life to the fullest. 

9. Have faith in Self: 
Situations might come, when some friends might leave, you will have a break up, people will walk away, at that time, do not lose faith in self. Keep walking, keep doing good, pull yourself together and look at things in the right light. If something needs to be fixed, apologise, talk to the person and clear things out and keep your mind healthy and calm. When one does things with peace, the right thing happens. 

Enaakshi Kotwal 

A traveller...





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